2007

Michael & Jacob on the train from Paris 2007.

Nancy Linn

Michael & Nancy Linn at Breadmen's in Chapel Hill, 2011.

When Mike was in India he greatly enjoyed the spicy Indian food so when he was a student at Reed College, he cooked for himself that Indian food.  On his way from Oregon to Connecticut to visit family and friends, he traveled through Canada.  The border agents came close to jailing this tall, skinny, long-haired kid – carrying “drugs” (his little packets of the needed Indian spices!)  A real hippie.

Holly answered the door here in Oswego (NY) and came rushing back to tell me, “Mom, one of the Beatles is at the front door.”  Yep— it was Mike. 

Love to you both –

Nancy Linn

 Out to Golden Coral with Susan Linn & John Jenkins Valentine's 2011.

Harriet Moffatt

To Mike

You are my big brother.  We are from the same place.  You are older, and a boy.  You are smart and skilled.  I have always looked up to you and wanted you to notice me.

Companion of my childhood: frog-catcher, star-gazer,  Tarzan-vine-swinger.  You were always out ahead of me somewhere:  building, doing, being clever, using your words, traveling.  You helped write a math book while still in your teens, you corresponded with a Viking researcher, you hiked and biked the length of New England before it was cool to do so.  You could cook, do calculus, build a paper and balsa wood  hot-air balloon (and fly it and crash it), and of course you drove the family car before I did.  You visited different churches until you found the one you wanted to join.  You became and stayed close friends with some of your teachers.

Your appetite is prodigious.  You used to cook a second dinner for yourself, before going to bed, back in high school days.  You were always partial to staying up late then sleeping thru part of the day.

We have the same hands and feet.

You are funny and witty, also as well-spoken and well-written as anyone I know: a true man of letters.  You have pursued comedians all your life –and were always ready to replay a Peter Sellers movie, a Monty Python video, or a Woody Allen favorite.  Before that, there was Sid Caesar, Jackie Gleason, James Thurber, Tom Lehrer, the Threepenny Opera, Spike Jones…I think you craved the balance that comedy gave to the darkness that accompanied you for most of your life.

When you were at Oxford, England studying, I came to visit, and we ate the hottest food I have ever had at a  curry place…You took me punting on the little river that ran thru the town, we drank mead cider, then I illegally spent the night in your all-boys dorm, in the morning I had to leave by climbing over a high wall with broken glass encrusted in the top, WITH my suitcase in hand!  Another time that year you visited me at the home of my French “family” in Normandy, and in one dinner you cleaned out their cheese plate, which was intended to feed the family for at least a week!

Before Alex and Jacob, you parented Alan and Sasha.  I would see you hand out and play and joke with the, take them on hiking canoeing and skiing adventures and later to the far side of the world for larger adventures.  You cooked for them and there was incessant conversation.  I believe you once said that maybe you should have taught sixth grade instead of college.  Except: you hadn’t a clue what to do with girls!

You spent 15 years after college getting advanced degrees.  We lamented that you might remain a student forever!  But then you joined the Rutgers faculty, for a distinguished career as an Anthropology Professor.  You lived in a hut in an Untouchable village in Tamilnadu, India, then later studied these same people by commuting from Madras on a motor bike.  You wrote a book about them, then later, a popular anthropological book about New Jersey college students, doing the research by going undercover in the dorm, passing for a college student yourself!  I heard you speak on this book in Amherst, Mass.  The girls in the audience wanted to know why all your anecdotes in the book were about boys.

Books: you love them.  You told me that, as a kid, after reading your first chapter book, you felt as though you had just gotten a key to THE WORLD.

Diwali 2008

Eric Wenzel

I met Michael briefly in at Shehaqua in PA.  It was an important time for me as I was preparing to launch a program in India aimed at reducing religious-related violence.  I didn't expect to meet someone at Shehaqua who not only had some understanding of Indian culture, but was familiar with the Swaminarayan sect in which had been the victim of violence. That was Michael Moffatt.  It meant a lot to me to meet someone who understood what I was endeavoring to do.

I traveled to India three times soon after that meeting and worked with both Hindus and Muslims from Gujarat and other areas.  Because of Michael sharing his knowledge with me, he had a small part in all of that.  There are people you meet briefly and forget.  There are other people you meet briefly and they somehow leave a lasting impression or leave something with you forever. 


Fond regards,

Eric

Robert Pickell

Dear Michael,

It has been awhile since I last saw you and spoke with you, yet I still

have fond memories of you. I remember when you first came to family camp

many years ago. You watched everything very closely and spoke with many

people.

I still remember you offering to help without being asked and staying

after meals to help clean up when you could.

I have heard that you physical body has weakened and not improving. It

just reminds us all of how transient this physical life as we know it

is. We all experience love, sorrow, joy, pain and longing in our lives.

Many have asked and wondered about what is beyond the physical. I am not

going to get religious on you. Instead I will speak from my heart.

There is one thing I am very clear and sure of. Love is what creates

life. Our birth is due to the love our parents shared and the result was

us. Our Children are the result of the love we share with our spouse.

The other thing I know is that Love dwells in the realm of the heart,

and in that place time has no meaning. The Love we experience as a child

from our parents hug is still as fresh and strong as long ago. The first

kiss you ever shared with your spouse is as strong and passionate now as

then. The Joy and hope you feel for your children when they came into

this world still burns as deep and strong as it always did.

The Realm of Heart and the love that is there knows no end, or any limit

of time. I can not say what lays beyond the physical for sure, but I can

say since Love is the creator of our physical life it does NOT end when

the physical ends. Love and ones heart continues on to a new horizon.

Michael I know you in my heart as one that seeks for true love and

offers to others the love he has found. You do not attempt to hold the

Joy and happiness to yourself but rather you try and share it to all you

meet. No change of your physical body will ever change that, or my

relationship to you.

The most sincere and honest blessing I can offer you is one that you

find true love and joy where ever life may take you or any journey you

may embark on. Rest assured that my love and that of many others will

always be with you forever in the Realm of the Heart we have shared

together.

With a Loving Heart

Robert Pickell

Tomoe Mull

Dear Michael,

I hope you are at ease in God's love and peace.

As you lay in His care, Don and I are thinking of you and remembering the happy times

that we shared together as a family.

When you lived in Highland Park, Pam held a women's meeting and it was there that I met

you for the first time.

When you lived in Hightstown, you invited our family to celebrate God's Day together in

the afternoon.  I will never forget the delicious meal that you had prepared for us. I

have always remembered your sweet potato casserole with pineapple, which I try to make

every Thanksgiving, but can never quite get to taste exactly the same.  You were an

amazing cook and host.  Your son Jacob was so cute and was also a good host to ask

everyone about what we needed.

 I also remember when  we took a walk together at Rutger's Gardens.  You had a very

smart dog (sorry I forgot her name).  I was amazed at how she fetched the log that you

threw in the pond and was able to bring it back to you so quickly.  I thought to myself,

how untrained my own dog Angel was, and marveled at how incredibly clever and well

trained you had taught your dog. After that, a student who had recognized you, approached

us. The young man clearly respected you and recalled your class with admiration. It was

then that I realized you were a great teacher, whether it was training your dog, or

engaging students within a classroom.

Two summers ago, when True Parents spoke at the Manhattan Center, Don and I had the

privilege of having you and Pam stay at our house in New Jersey. It was at this time that

we were finally able to get to know each other more. You shared many stories about how

your father was a missionary to India and about your interest in nature and humanity. We

were able to grow closer together as a family and I will always look back on these

memories with fondness and my deepest affections.

May God be with you and bless your family always. We love you.

Donald and Tomoe Mull